Friday, December 21, 2007

My Current Life Analysis

Let me share my "life rhythm" analysis... got this from an online reading.

Your present situation indicates someone who has labored long and hard in her garden. You are at the crossroads. Try to figure out if you need a course correction, or even a complete about-face. You're not yet committed to a certain path, but you could be soon. Change is still possible. It is important to look carefully at how disordered your situation is. Is everything too controlled and regular? Isn't it more fun to just let everything go? Make your plans real and achieve tangible results.

You are someone who has
strength due to life's hard knocks. You are honest, you can face the truth, even if it is unpleasant. Astute and you're difficult to be fooled, tricked nor conned. However, you will be more productive if you work with others. You don't have to do it all by yourself. You have to learn to look beyond the obvious, surface situation to what is hidden and obscure. It is not always necessary to act to achieve your goals. Sometimes they can be realized through a stillness that gives desire a chance to flower within the fullness of time.

You are full of energy and life. You're never afraid to try something new and will reach for all the gusto you can.
But sometimes you have to ask yourself if your energy is helping or already hurting? Balance is needed. On the other hand, your partner may be having problems with possessiveness or jealousy. He must learn that control is impossible.

Your current challenge - nothing exists for both of you except burdens and responsibilities. Each step will feel like a struggle. Be kind to yourself. Lighten the load wherever you can, and let others help you. You don't have to handle everything yourself.

Again, the main lesson is we "control" by letting go - we "win" by surrendering. Be reminded that the best approach to a problem is not always the most obvious. When we most want to force our will on someone, that is when we should release. When we most want to have our own way, that is when we should sacrifice. When we most want to act, that is when we should wait. The irony is that by making these contradictory moves, we find what we are looking for.

Oh my! So this only means one thing... "I'm a control-freak!"